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Everything I Never Told You by Celeste Ng- reviewed by Alexandra Harris

 


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Everything I Never Told You by Celeste Ng is really a psychological examination of the parent-child relationship rather than the criminal drama it seems like from the outset. It starts off with the death of Lydia, the favorite child of a Chinese father and American mother in 1970s USA. The mystery is how this seemingly perfect 16-year-old, the embodiment of her parents’ hopes, has ended up dead in the lake in their small town in Middle America.

This first-time novel by Celeste Ng is a riveting read. I read it in just a few days, propelled forward by the characters and wanting to somehow reach a happy ending even though it was clear from the start that Lydia would never turn out to be alive and well. I really enjoyed this book and its reminder of how important it is for parents not to push their own dreams and character traits on to their children.

The story was driven forward by the stories of how her parents did and didn’t fit in to 1960s America, and how that affected their half-Chinese, half-American children. Lydia’s father always wanted to fit in, but never did, while her mother wanted to become a doctor, but never realized her dreams. Both parents pressured Lydia in different ways, while ignoring her two siblings. I did find that the constant pressure was a bit one-note, with most of Lydia’s interactions with her mother involving her mom forcing her to revise her physics homework or read more books about scientists. I felt that there had to be some other dynamics between Lydia and her parents that would make the story more nuanced.
However, my overall impression was that I was deeply moved by the story and grateful for the opportunities women have now. I was also reminded of the importance of the things we teach our children. We should tell them that they can accomplish what they want without putting the weight of our dreams on their shoulders. As Kahlil Gibran writes in On Children: “They come through you but not from you. And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.”

Alexandra_Harris

Alexandra Harris is the author of The Frangipani Year: Love and Aid Work in Post-Tsunami Aceh. She is a communications specialist who has worked for a number of development organizations and non-profits. She currently lives in Colombo, Sri Lanka with her husband and their two young daughters. Alexandra is a lifelong expat and third culture kid, having grown up in Jakarta and Cairo.

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Artika Aurora Bakshi Artika co-manages thegoodbookcorner.com. She comes from a family of lawyers and has a master's degree in International Banking & Finance. Currently based in Sri Lanka, she teaches Commerce and History on a part-time basis at an international school and enjoys being part of the literary scene in Sri Lanka. A regular at the Galle Literary Festival and other literary events in Sri Lanka, Artika's articles and book reviews have featured in the Daily Mirror and Daily News and various blogs, such as, talkingcranes.com, sikhchic.com, sikhnet.com. She is actively involved with SAARC Women's Association of Sri Lanka. An avid reader, Artika runs an online book club with a membership base of over 600 members. Her passion for reading has led her to helping other writers with their manuscripts. Her short stories have been published online and she is also working on her own novel. Artika has published My Little Sikh Handbook and is currently working on her second children's book, with Sikhism as its central theme. You can reach Artika at bakshiartika@gmail.com .

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This entry was posted on December 15, 2015 by in Book Reviews, Guest Reviewers and tagged , , .
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