Let me begin by saying that I did not understand why this book created such a hue and cry; enough hysteria to make the author declare that he “Perumal Murugan, the writer is dead. As he is no God, he is not going to resurrect himself. He has no faith in rebirth. As an ordinary teacher, he will live as P Murugan. Leave him alone.” Is the tradition in the book a myth or a reality? That is of no importance, because the book is a piece of fiction – and an amazing story.
One Part Woman is the English translation of the Tamil book Madhorubhagan,that released in 2010. In a remote Tamil Nadu interior, Kali and Ponna are a much in love couple. While everything around them multiplies with ease, the couple are unable to have children. The comments of well wishers, and the gossip of people around them make their lives miserable. Kali’s sexual potency is the subject of sly and open taunts, and any occasion can fast turn into a criticism of her childlessness. Kali becomes a recluse and spends time in his own thriving barnyard. Ponna gains a sharp tongue to tell off anyone who talks of her ‘barrenness’ and goes through periods of intense lows as she comes to terms with a life without children.
The couple perform countless acts of penance to various deities, among them the half-male and half-female god on the hill.
Every year, on the fourteenth day of the chariot festival to the androgynous deity on the hill, the rules of all marital contracts are relaxed. Any man is allowed to lie with any woman – a tradition acknowledged as being a socially and divinely sanctioned method of conceiving should a husband be sterile. Ponna’s mother and mother-in-law,want Ponna to participate in this tradition. Ponna’s willingness to try this riles Kali. He does not believe in the godliness of this sexual union.
‘You tell me. If your wife was childless,would you have sent her with a stranger?’
‘Mapillai. Don’t call him a stranger. Who remembers faces? All men are gods that night. Think of him as god, you might even feel happy about it. Isn’t it a great blessing if our child comes from god?Haven’t you heard people remark,”This child is a boon from god”? Those children were born exactly this way,mapillai.’
‘When you and I went, were we gods? All we wanted to do was to find some decent-looking woman to fuck , didn’t we? Did you ever think of yourself as god?’
In a misunderstanding, engineered by her well-meaning brother, Ponna goes to the temple, without Kali’s approval. She prays to the gods, ‘Come to me with a form that I like’. When she is finally approached by a person who appeals to her, she sets her mind aside from Kali, the one she truly loves, and as she walks away with the stranger all she thinks is, ‘He is my god. My job is to go where he takes me.’
One Part Woman is a beautiful and heart breaking story – of a couple so happy with each other, yet destroyed by their childlessness and the desperation to try anything to have a child, and restore their social and emotional well-being.
I wish Perumal Murugan had not stopped writing. I would have loved to read a sequel to this story. To know what happens next with Ponna and Kali!